Finally Understand Your Attachment Patterns & Spot Emotional Unavailability Before It Hurts
Transform from anxious and confused to securely attached and confident. Your pocket companion for healing, growth, and spotting avoidants instantly.
Unattached
Your pocket companion for secure attachment
Avoidant Detector
Emotional Regulator
Results History
Journal Entries
Personal Growth
💡 Today's Tip: Trust your body's signals. If something feels off, it probably is.
I Created This Because I Wish I Had It
When I started exploring the dating world with a new heightened sense of awareness, I was lost. I could feel something was off with the people I was dating, but I couldn't put my finger on it. I was anxious, confused, and constantly second-guessing myself.
I spent years learning about attachment theory, doing somatic work, journaling through my triggers, and slowly building the ability to trust my own body's signals. Eventually, I could spot an avoidant within minutes of meeting them.
Imagine having that same clarity. Imagine trusting yourself completely. Imagine never wasting months on someone who can't show up for you.
You Don't Need What You Think You Need
Most people think they need years of therapy, expensive coaching, or to hit rock bottom before they can heal. That's not true.
- You DON'T need years of therapy
While therapy is valuable, you can start understanding patterns and healing today - You DON'T need to be "healed" to start dating
You just need awareness and tools to navigate relationships consciously - You DON'T need to keep getting hurt to learn
You can learn to spot red flags before investing your heart - You DON'T need to figure this out alone
You need a system, community, and daily support
Here's What You Actually Need:
✓ A way to analyze patterns objectively (not just your anxious thoughts)
✓ Tools to regulate your emotions in real-time
✓ Daily practices that rewire your attachment style
✓ A community of people who understand what you're going through
✓ A pocket companion that's always there when you need it
Everything You Need in One App
Avoidant Detector
Analyze behavior patterns in any context. Answer targeted questions and get a percentage score. Anything over 50% comes with a caution sign. Stop wasting time on emotionally unavailable people.
Emotional Regulator
Learn to regulate any emotion with customized somatic exercises. Includes thoughtful prompts that go into your password-protected journal. Finally trust your body's signals.
Personal Growth Hub
Daily affirmations based on your focus area, with multiple ways to practice them. Journal-like prompts that save to your private journal. Build secure attachment one day at a time.
Private Journal
Password-protected space for all your reflections, exercises, and growth. Your safe space to process, heal, and track your journey.
Community Chat
Connect with other members for last-minute advice or support. You're not alone in this journey. Get real-time help when you need it most.
Always With You
Your pocket companion wherever you go. Whether you're on a date, feeling triggered, or need a quick check-in, Unattached is there.
See Real Results & App Screenshots
🚨 Avoidant Detector Results
Analysis Complete
What This Means:
• Likely to pull away when things get serious
• May struggle with emotional intimacy
• Often sends mixed signals
• Difficulty with commitment
Moving Forward:
Consider if you're willing to accept limited emotional availability. This person may not be capable of the depth you're seeking.
🫁 Breathing Exercise Guide
Anxiety Regulation
4-7-8 Breathing
Inhale for 4 counts
Hold for 7 counts
Exhale for 8 counts
Round 2 of 4
This exercise activates your parasympathetic nervous system, helping you move from fight-or-flight into rest-and-digest mode.
🌱 Personal Growth Areas
Choose Your Focus
Self-Worth
Build confidence and self-love
Boundaries
Learn to say no and protect your energy
Anxious Thoughts
Calm overthinking and worry
Trust & Intimacy
Open your heart safely
Dating Confidence
Show up authentically in dating
Emotional Regulation
Master your emotional responses
"I used the Avoidant Detector on someone I'd been seeing for 3 weeks. 78% avoidant. I ended it that day. Two months later, I met someone who scored 15%. We've been together 6 months and it's the healthiest relationship I've ever had."
"The emotional regulation exercises changed my life. I used to spiral for days after a triggering text. Now I can regulate myself in 10 minutes and respond from a grounded place. My therapist is amazed at my progress."
"I thought I needed years of therapy to become securely attached. After 3 months with Unattached, I can spot avoidants immediately and I trust my gut completely. This app compressed years of healing into months."
Quick Wins Our Members Experience:
✓ Spot red flags within the first conversation
✓ Regulate anxiety before it spirals (usually within 10-15 minutes)
✓ Feel more confident in dating decisions within the first week
✓ Stop attracting the same type of unavailable person
✓ Build trust with their own intuition
Join the Founding Members
Monthly
per month
$16/month
- Avoidant Detector
- Emotional Regulator
- Personal Growth Hub
- Private Journal
- Community Chat
- Lock in Founding Member Price Forever
- Priority Support
- Early Access to New Features
- Cancel Anytime
Annual
per year (just $3.08/month)
$175/year
- Everything in Monthly
- 3-Day Free Trial
- Lock in Founding Member Price Forever
- Priority Support
- Early Access to New Features
- Cancel Anytime
🔥 Founding Member Guarantee 🔥
Lock in this price FOREVER as long as you keep your account active. When the price increases to $16/month and $175/year, you'll still pay the founding member rate. This is our forever thank you to our early supporters.
Exclusive Founding Member Bonuses
🎁 Bonus #1: Red Flag Checklist
$27 Value FREE
A comprehensive checklist of 50+ red flags to watch for in early dating. Print it, save it to your phone, or reference it in the app. Never miss a warning sign again.
🎁 Bonus #2: Emergency Regulation Scripts
$37 Value FREE
Pre-written scripts for when you're too triggered to think clearly. Text templates, boundary-setting phrases, and self-soothing mantras you can use immediately.
🎁 Bonus #3: Secure Attachment Roadmap
$47 Value FREE
A step-by-step guide showing exactly how to move from anxious/avoidant to secure. Know exactly where you are and what to focus on next.
Total Bonus Value: $111 - Yours free as a founding member
Common Questions
Your Pocket Companion Awaits
Stop second-guessing yourself. Stop wasting time on emotionally unavailable people. Start trusting your body and spotting avoidants as quickly as I do.
Start Your Free Trial3-day free trial with annual plan • Cancel anytime • Join the community today
Important Details:
Pricing: Monthly plan is $5/month (introductory rate, will increase to $16/month). Annual plan is $37/year (introductory rate, will increase to $175/year). Annual plan includes a 3-day free trial. Monthly plan does not include a free trial.
Founding Member Price Lock: If you sign up at the introductory rate ($5/month or $37/year), your price is locked in forever as long as you maintain an active subscription. If you cancel and rejoin later, you will pay the current rate at that time.
Cancellation Policy: You may cancel your subscription at any time. There are no refunds or money-back guarantees. Your access will continue until the end of your current billing period.
Free Trial: The 3-day free trial is only available with the annual plan. You will not be charged during the trial period. If you do not cancel before the trial ends, you will be charged $37 for the full year. The monthly plan does not include a free trial and you will be charged $5 immediately upon signup.
Price Increase Notice: The introductory pricing is temporary and will increase to $16/month and $175/year at a future date. We will provide notice to existing members, but new members will pay the higher rate. Once the price increases, the introductory rate will never be available again.
Disclaimer: Unattached is a self-help tool and educational resource. It is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, or medical advice. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services immediately.
